The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages: The Little Things That Make a Big Difference

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The truth about highly happy and you : how a handful of high-leverage secrets unlocks delight in your marriage -- Highly happy couples know little is big : why a few small actions carry such surprising power -- Highly happy couples believe the best : how assuming that your spouse cares deeply changes everything -- Highly happy couples go to bed mad : why sleeping on it might be smarter after all -- Highly happy couples keep score : how what you count up changes what you give back -- Highly happy couples boss their feelings around : why changing what you do changes how you feel -- Highly happy couples have factual fantasies : how loving the art of the possible makes your marriage stronger -- Highly happy couples use sign language : how a silly signal of reconnection can bypass hurt and bring reassurance -- Highly happy couples hang out : how eliminating physical distance can solve emotional distance -- Highly happy couples don't tell it like it is : what happens when you give brutal honesty the boot -- Highly happy couples look higher : why looking to marriage for happiness means you're looking in the wrong place -- Highly happy couples get in over their heads : why risking it all on your marriage is actually the safest bet -- Highly happy couples think they hit the jackpot : why giving credit means getting back bliss -- Putting the secrets to work : your plan for getting from so-so to highly happy in your marriage.